You Don’t Need to Have All the Answers

If you’re pregnant and even thinking about adoption, you may wonder: “Is it too early to talk to someone?” The truth is it’s never too early to ask questions, explore your options, or learn more about what adoption could look like for you.

You don’t need to be 100% sure. You don’t have to explain yourself. You are allowed to just explore.

At CFK, we’re here to listen, not to push. Whether you're weeks into your pregnancy, nearing delivery, or just found out you're expecting, it’s OK to reach out.

You’re Not Making a Commitment You’re Gathering Information

Many birthmothers assume that talking to an adoption agency means they’re committing to placing their child. That’s simply not true.

Talking to CFK is not a decision it’s a conversation.

When you contact us, you can:

• Ask questions anonymously
• Learn about adoption in Ohio without pressure
• Explore open, semi-open, and closed adoption plans
• Talk to someone who understands the emotional side not just the legal parts

Whether you end up choosing parenting, adoption, or another path, you deserve support while figuring it out.

Why It Helps to Talk Early

Reaching out early gives you more time to understand your options and get the emotional support you deserve. Waiting can feel isolating, and the uncertainty may build.

Talking early allows you to:

• Understand your legal rights and protections
• Create a personalized plan based on your values
• Build a relationship with a potential adoptive family (if you choose open adoption)
• Make decisions that aren’t rushed or pressured

There is no downside to asking questions early and no shame in changing your mind later.

What If I’m Not Even Sure I Want Adoption?

That’s perfectly OK. In fact, many women who reach out to CFK don’t know what they want at first. Feeling unsure about adoption is not a problem it’s normal.

When you talk to us, we’ll never try to convince you of anything. You can:

• Talk through your feelings
• Express your fears and hopes
• Learn how adoption might work but also how it might feel

You are allowed to be unsure. Your voice matters.

Common Fears That Keep Birthmothers From

Reaching Out

Some birthmothers hesitate because they fear being judged or pressured. Others feel like they have to wait until they're "sure." Here's what you should know:

If you’re worried about being judged CFK won’t do that. If you’re afraid you’ll be pushed into adoption you won’t. If you’re only a few weeks pregnant it’s still okay.

Reaching out doesn’t mean you’re signing anything or making a legal decision. It means you’re strong enough to look at your options and care for your own emotional well being.

What to Expect When You Reach Out to CFK

You can reach out in whatever way feels most comfortable call, text, email. When you do, you’ll be met with a calm, compassionate person who truly wants to hear your story.

You might say: “I’m not sure what I want, but I have questions.” And we’ll say: “That’s okay. Let’s talk.”

There’s no script. No obligations. Just a conversation where your feelings matter.

Emotional Support Is Part of the Process

This isn’t just about facts or paperwork it’s about you. CFK understands that adoption is not just a decision; it’s an emotional journey.

We’re here for all of it. The tears. The fears. The guilt. The hope. The love.

Whether you move forward with adoption or not, you deserve real emotional support.

You’re Allowed to Take Things One Step at a Time

You might talk to someone at CFK and still feel unsure. That’s okay. You don’t have to decide in one call or one day. There’s no pressure to move forward faster than you’re ready.

Some women reach out during their first trimester and don’t make a decision until much later. Others call after birth. No matter the timing you are not too early or too late.

Every path is different. Every decision is valid.

What Other Birthmothers Have Said

“I thought I had to wait until I knew for sure. But talking helped me figure it out.”

“They didn’t make me feel like I had to do anything. Just helped me think through it all.”

“I was scared, but they were so kind. I didn’t even know support like that existed.”



CFK listens first. And always puts your emotional safety first.

FAQs: Talking to an Agency When Unsure About Adoption

You Deserve Support Even If You're Not Sure

If you're wondering whether adoption is right for you, it’s not too early to talk to someone who cares. CFK is here to provide the space, support, and answers you need without pressure, and with complete compassion.